kbdfr wrote: ↑
Wrong rationale, you should "try never to piss her off
" for her
sake and not out of fear for yourself.
Fear wouldn't be the precise word here (my fault for using it). Nice getting advice from those whom never been married before but when you are with anyone, over time you see their rationale and of course the way their mind works. She is simply tenacious towards anything, she never gives up until she either owns it or changes/destroys it.
Plus loving them doesn't make it any easier because no one else can compare. After all when it comes down to it through the many disasters that have occurred in the past, she has always been there to defend and stabilize the family.
Over many years that I've been working away, she has become the permanent rock that we ALL depend upon. Only regret not being there more for the children when they were growing up. They now all support her with any discussions and potential ideas that need immediate input.
YES, I'm now simply the drop in every fortnight for a week before leaving town again for another shift.